How Reloveo analyses your chats

Before any AI is involved, we compute hard facts directly from your chat — the kind of numbers an AI would otherwise have to estimate. For every analysis we measure:

• How many messages each person sent (and the share of the total).
• Average message length per person, in characters.
• Question-asking rate — how often each person asks something.
• Conversation initiations — who restarts the chat after a long gap.
• Median reply time for each person.
• Emoji use and the overall span of the conversation in days.

These numbers go into the analysis as facts, and the “effort share” percentage you see on your report is calculated from them — not estimated by an AI. Same chat, same number, every time.

Counting messages only gets you so far. The rest is about what's actually happening between the two of you. These are the things we watch for — all of them well-studied patterns that relationship researchers have spent decades linking to how couples fare.

• Warmth against friction. Not whether you argue — everyone argues — but how much affection, appreciation and easiness sits around the hard moments. The ratio matters far more than the fights themselves.
• Contempt, specifically. Sarcasm, name-calling, eye-roll energy, mockery. Of everything that shows up in a chat, this is the one worth taking seriously, and we weight it heavily.
• Whether you repair. After friction, does someone soften, apologise, make a joke, reach back? How quickly things come back to normal says more than the argument did.
• Small bids for attention.A random photo, a question, “guess what happened today”. We look at whether those get picked up or left hanging.
• Chasing and pulling away.Whether one of you consistently pushes for more contact while the other goes quiet — a loop that's hard to see from inside it.
• Who opens up, and whether it's returned. Closeness usually grows when both people share real things. When one person does all the opening up, that shows.

When your report describes how each of you tends to connect, treat it as “this looks like…”, never a diagnosis. How someone texts is a thin slice of who they are.

Every analysis covers these:

1. Connection strength score — a single 0–100 read of the overall dynamic.
2. Communication style — how each person communicates, with quoted evidence, etc.
3. Emotional investment balance — driven by the measured effort share.
4. Response patterns — initiation, reply times, conversation flow, etc.
5. Attachment indicators — likely attachment patterns for each person.
6. Tone trajectory — how the emotional tone has moved over time.
7. Three key observations — specific patterns you might not have noticed.
8. One honest recommendation — a single, specific next step.

1. You paste a chat, or upload a WhatsApp or Instagram export, or attach screenshots.
2. We clean out the noise — deleted messages, “media omitted” markers, forwarded links — and replace every name with “Person A” and “Person B”. This happens on your device, before anything is sent anywhere.
3. We count the measurable things listed above, straight from the messages.
4. The anonymised conversation goes to the AI, which reads it for the patterns described above and reports back what it found — as labels and counts, not as a verdict.
5. Our own scoring engine takes those findings plus the measured numbers and calculates your score. The AI never picks the number itself, which is why the same chat gives you the same score every time.
6. Anything the AI estimated that we can measure properly gets replaced with the real figure.
7. You get a free preview. If the conversation shows signs of crisis, that part is never behind the paywall.
8. If you unlock the full report, you can download it as a PDF or have it emailed to you.

• Names are anonymized before the AI ever sees the conversation.
• Phone numbers and emails inside messages are scrubbed.
• We do not store your conversation on our servers. The analysis is held encrypted in your own browser until you unlock it.
• Reloveo is built to be aware of India's DPDP Act and the GDPR.

For the full detail, read our Privacy Policy.

We try to be honest about limits, because a tool that pretends to be more than it is, isn't worth using.

• This is informational analysis — not medical or psychological diagnosis.
• A chat is a slice of a relationship, not the whole of it. The best conversations you two have had were probably in person, and we can't see those.
• We read your most recent messages, not every message ever. If you upload years of chat, the report focuses on the latest stretch of it rather than the entire history. That keeps the read about where things are now — but it does mean a very old golden period may not appear.
• AI misses things people catch instantly — sarcasm, running jokes, and anything that depends on context you two share but never typed out.
• If a conversation shows signs of crisis or abuse, we flag it and show professional helplines. We don't deliver a verdict on it.

Reloveo is built in India, and the analysis is told to read with South Asian context in mind:

• Indirectness can be a politeness norm, not avoidance.
• Hindi-English code-switching is normal expressive behaviour, not confusion.
• Family considerations and shared context often shape what's said and unsaid.
• Early-relationship formality doesn't always indicate emotional distance.